We’ve all had crushes right from our high school or college. The feeling of having that puppy love in your heart is truly something, isn’t it? Whenever they walk in the hallway, we can’t seem to take our eyes off them.
But impressing your crush can be a far tougher task than we think it is. It’s not just about giving them compliments all the time or stalking them.
Nope, that stuff doesn’t impress anyone anymore. So if you’re wondering how to make your crush fall in love with you, you’re not alone. Here are some amazing tips that’ll help you woo them!
1. Be confident
First of all, if you’re nervous or stuttering around your crush, things are going to take a long, long time to go forward. The key to winning your crush’s heart is to be confident. The link between confidence and happiness is 47%, so if you’re confident, you’ll be a much happier person!
Once you are confident and you talk openly with them, they’ll realize how absolutely cool you are. Automatically, their fondness for you will grow.
2. Show them the real you
We all tend to like things that our crush likes, simply because we wish to be closer to them, even if we actually hate those things. So the next time your crush asks you your favorite food, be honest and open about it even if they hate that particular dish.
Unless you show them who you really are, your crush won’t understand how to take things with you. So the most important thing to remember is to simply be your lovely own self!
3. Groom yourself
Let’s be honest here. Physical appearance matters, even if it’s a tiny bit. Therefore, groom yourself the best you can. You don’t need to look like a celebrity or a Vogue model to win their heart. Go for a fashion sense that appeals to you the most.
Wear stylish clothes that make you feel comfortable. Get a new haircut. There’s nothing as attractive as a glow-up, and even your crush will agree with us!
4. Give them meaningful gifts
If your love has shared some sentimental life story with you, you can turn it into a meaningful gift and give it to them. They’re guaranteed to be impressed. Another great gift can be long-lasting roses as they convey a message of true and passionate love.
The gifts don’t have to be terribly expensive or fancy; anything that means something to your crush can count as a great gift.
5. Talk about your dreams and hobbies
More often than not, we only keep hearing about the dreams and aspirations of our darlings. But it’s also important to make others hear you.
Talk to them about the dreams that you have, or what you would like to accomplish in life. Even if your crush doesn’t have the same dreams, they will still listen to you and be impressed with your thoughts and passions.
For example, if your crush wishes to be a guitarist and you’re already an excellent guitar player, tell that to them. Who knows, maybe they’ll want to jam with you?
6. Show them the little gestures of love
Did crush injure themself? Bring a band-aid or a bar of chocolate the next day for them. Help them arrange their files and folders neatly at their desk. You don’t need to do anything grand but these tiny gestures of love can really go a long way.
Moreover, you don’t even have to do anything and everything for them (that can get too clingy at times). But show them the fact that you are kind and compassionate to them as well as to others. Make sure these gestures truly come out of your heart and you’re not doing any of these just to impress someone else.
7. Be their friend first
If you and your honey are practically strangers, you should focus on being friends first and a couple later. If your sole intention is to be romantically involved with them, things might not work out. So always remember to be a friend first and a partner later since it all starts with a genuine friendship.
Over to you…
Impressing your love can be difficult but it’s not impossible. With the right moves and your confidence, you can make them fall for you very hard. And always remember to be true to yourself and them- that’s your biggest weapon to impress right there!